...I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly. John 10:10

Saturday, November 21, 2009

Thanksgiving prep in different years

It occurred to me recently that my work in preparing for Thanksgiving this year will be drastically different from that of last year.
Last year I made a Tur-Duc-Hen!
I've you've never heard of that, it's quite a fancy deal.
You de-bone a turkey, without damaging the skin (takes a good deal of time). Then on the inside of the turkey carcass, you spread a stuffing.
Inside of that, you place a de-boned duck. Inside the duck you spread another kind of stuffing.
After that you put in a de-boned chicken, then a last layer of another kind of stuffing.
Once it's all deboned, stuffed, and put in place, you sew up the belly of the turkey. Hopefully your seam will not be noticable.
The goal is for it to look like a simple stuffed turkey. Mine looked like a lumpy monster of a turkey!
When I brought it to the family gathering, everyone shied away from it at first. Well, we are all a bunch of hillbilly hicks, anyway!
One of my uncles who is a fearless culinary adventurer took the first slice.
After about 15 minutes, he started telling the others about it. (I have 8 aunts, 3 uncles, the inlaws, the cousins, the 1st cousins once removed, etc). Nobody else had been willing to try it until he gave his exhuberant approval!
Within the hour I was recieving lots of questions about how I did it, and lots of compliments for how good it tasted!
Funny how people will shy from something different isn't it?
By the time the meal was over, the only thing left were the legs, and some skin. I didn't even get to try it! (I usually wait for others to go through the line, and for some reason, I didn't get any).
I got the instructions for making it on-line.

This year, the dish I'm supposed to bring to my husbands side is much different!
Jello salad.
Dump 4 ingredients into a bowl, stir them, refridgerate, serve. Wow, what a difference!
We'll go to husbands family this time. 5 brothers, 6 sisters, 44(?) neices and nephews, all the in laws, and now the great-neices and nephews. Another big gathering!

Thanksgiving is the best holiday to me. Gratitude always makes us joyful. AND this is the least complicated holiday. It's ALL about thanking the LORD. I like that.

Friday, November 20, 2009

In response to those against the quiverfull movement

I guess I've been wasting my time on the internet tonight. I just came across some articles that berate the quiverfull movement. Frankly it's a little shocking, but at the same time not surprising.
There are some assumptions about this movement that I think are rashly made.

1. That in these families, the women are harassed and dominated by their men.
The assumption is that it is like this in ALL of the families who embrace the quiverfull lifestyle.
I would like to assert that this is a bane across ALL types of families, regardless of race, denomination, status....
I will say that of the families that I know, NONE of the women are down-trodden and used up by their husbands. The men are caring, good providers, loving husbands. None of the articles I read mentioned anything about the self-sacrifice that these fathers make for the sake of their wives and children.
Of course there will be those who will take Scripture out of context. There will always be those little men who are power hungry and will beat the Bible over their wives head forcing them to submit. I grieve for their wives. Yet by and large, the majority of the wives in the 'quiverfull movement' are married to the best men in the nation. Together they are working as a team, in God's framework, to restore what has largely been lost in this once-great Christian nation.

2. The authors suggest there is a racial undertone. The whites are trying to make up for the declining birth rate of the 'right' race... meaning the white race.
ABSURD.
The majority of the people in the quiverfull movement try to base their lives on what the Bible says. It says that we are all of ONE race. I will admit there are factions of this movement that adhere to this white supremist stand, yet, the majority do not.
May I also say that there ARE such groups as black supremists?
This is not about race, it's about living the life that God has for you, even if it's counter-cultural.
Last time I looked, this still WAS the land of freedom of religion.

3. They say that the quiverfull movement is anti-feminism and anti-sex!
Of course it's anti-feminism. An honest observer of American history over the past 100 years will agree that the change of women's roles and women's duties has spawned confusion and neglect. The fruit of feminism is rotten, and why should it be desired?
Some people get things confused though. The bible says we are all equal in Christ...men and women, gentile or jew,etc.
Modern feminism has created a horde of whining, shouting, selfish, manipulative -yet- sexy, power hungry females. How is that better than women who realize their duty to their families, as well as society, to bring up a productive, balanced next generation?
As for the anti-sex part...that's laughable! WHERE do they think all those babies come from? (Think...happy bedrooms, between 2 loving people willing to embrace the responsibility of the fruits of their actions).
Their perspective is that since quiverfull minded people are against abortion, and against abortifacient birth control, that they are against sex! Now, who is really thinking inside their own box? This isn't against sex, it's FOR sex, as a gift, within marriage! God designed it that way.

My conclusion?
Don't get trapped in legalism. Don't follow the dicates of any man. As a Christian, read your bible, follow it's leadings, maintain your prayer life. If you and your spouse feel the call to bring up a large family, do so between yourselves and the Lord. HE will never fail you, regardless of the situation.

I personally believe this is a quiet revival that the Lord has brought about. There is no single denomination that has started this. My husband and I felt this way even before we were married- before we really began to read the bible. Many have simply come to this based on what they read. We felt this way before we met other folks who felt the same way we did. It has to be a move of God, and in that, we can expect derision and false accusations. Of course!

History Repeating

History Unfolding
-by David Kaiser

I am a student of history. Professionally, I have written 15 books on history that have been published in six languages, and I have studied history all my life. I have come to think there is something monumentally large afoot, and I do not believe it is simply a banking crisis, or a mortgage crisis, or a credit crisis. Yes these exist, but they are merely single facets on a very large gemstone that is only now coming into a sharper focus.

Something of historic proportions is happening. I can sense it because I know how it feels, smells, what it looks like, and how people react to it. Yes, a perfect storm may be brewing, but there is something happening within our country that has been evolving for about ten to fifteen years. The pace has dramatically quickened in the past two.

We demand and then codify into law the requirement that our banks make massive loans to people we know they can never pay back? Why?

We learned just days ago that the Federal Reserve, which has little or no real oversight by anyone, has "loaned" two trillion dollars (that is $2,000,000,000,000) over the past few months, but will not tell us to whom or why or disclose the terms. That is our money. Yours and mine. And that is three times the $700 billion we all argued about so strenuously just this past September. Who has this money? Why do they have it? Why are the terms unavailable to us? Who asked for it? Who authorized it? I thought this was a government of "we the people," who loaned our powers to our elected leaders. Apparently not.

We have spent two or more decades intentionally de-industrializing our economy.. Why?

We have intentionally dumbed down our schools, ignored our history, and no longer teach our founding documents, why we are exceptional, and why we are worth preserving. Students by and large cannot write, think critically, read, or articulate. Parents are not revolting, teachers are not picketing, school boards continue to back mediocrity.. Why?

We have now established the precedent of protesting every close election (violently in California over a proposition that is so controversial that it simply wants marriage to remain defined as between one man and one woman. Did you ever think such a thing possible just a decade ago?) We have corrupted our sacred political process by allowing unelected judges to write laws that radically change our way of life, and then mainstream Marxist groups like ACORN and others to turn our voting system into a banana republic. To what purpose?

Now our mortgage industry is collapsing, housing prices are in free fall, major industries are failing, our banking system is on the verge of collapse, social security is nearly bankrupt, as is Medicare and our entire government. Our education system is worse than a joke (I teach college and I know precisely what I am talking about) - the list is staggering in its length, breadth, and depth. It is potentially 1929 x ten...and we are at war with an enemy we cannot even name for fear of offending people of the same religion, who, in turn, cannot wait to slit the throats of your children if they have the opportunity to do so.

And finally, we have elected a man that no one really knows anything about, who has never run so much as a Dairy Queen, let alone a town as big as Wasilla , Alaska .. All of his associations and alliances are with real radicals in their chosen fields of employment, and everything we learn about him, drip by drip, is unsettling if not downright scary (Surely you have heard him speak about his idea to create and fund a mandatory civilian defense force stronger than our military for use inside our borders? No? Oh, of course. The media would never play that for you over and over and then demand he answer it. Sarah Palin's pregnant daughter and $150,000 wardrobe are more important.)

Mr. Obama's winning platform can be boiled down to one word: CHANGE. Why?

I have never been so afraid for my country and for my children as I am now.

This man campaigned on bringing people together, something he has never, ever done in his professional life In my assessment, Obama will divide us along philosophical lines, push us apart, and then try to realign the pieces into a new and different power structure. Change is indeed coming. And when it comes, you will never see the same nation again

And that is only the beginning..

As a serious student of history, I thought I would never come to experience what the ordinary, moral German must have felt in the mid-1930s. In those times, the "savior" was a former smooth-talking rabble-rouser from the streets, about whom the average German knew next to nothing. What they should have known was that he was associated with groups that shouted, shoved, and pushed around people with whom they disagreed; he edged his way onto the political stage through great oratory Conservative "losers" read it right now.

And there were the promises. Economic times were tough, people were losing jobs, and he was a great speaker. And he smiled and frowned and waved a lot. And people, even newspapers, were afraid to speak out for fear that his "brown shirts" would bully and beat them into submission. Which they did - regularly. And then, he was duly elected to office, while a full-throttled economic crisis bloomed at hand - the Great Depression. Slowly, but surely he seized the controls of government power, person by person, department by department, bureaucracy by bureaucracy. The children of German citizens were at first, encouraged to join a Youth Movement in his name where they were taught exactly what to think. Later, they were required to do so. No Jews of course,

How did he get people on his side? He did it by promising jobs to the jobless, money to the money-less, and rewards for the military-industrial complex. He did it by indoctrinating the children, advocating gun control, health care for all, better wages, better jobs, and promising to re-instill pride once again in the country, across Europe , and across the world. He did it with a compliant media - did you know that? And he did this all in the name of justice and . . . CHANGE. And the people surely got what they voted for.

If you think I am exaggerating, look it up. It's all there in the history books.

So read your history books. Many people of conscience objected in 1933 and were shouted down, called names, laughed at, and ridiculed. When Winston Churchill pointed out the obvious in the late 1930s while seated in the House of Lords in England (he was not yet Prime Minister), he was booed into his seat and called a crazy troublemaker. He was right, though. And the world came to regret that he was not listened to.

Do not forget that Germany was the most educated, the most cultured country in Europe . It was full of music, art, museums, hospitals, laboratories, and universities. And yet, in less than six years (a shorter time span than just two terms of the U. S. presidency) it was rounding up its own citizens, killing others, abrogating its laws, turning children against parents, and neighbors against neighbors.. All with the best of intentions, of course. The road to Hell is paved with them.

As a practical thinker, one not overly prone to emotional decisions, I have a choice: I can either believe what the objective pieces of evidence tell me (even if they make me cringe with disgust); I can believe what history is shouting to me from across the chasm of seven decades; or I can hope I am wrong by closing my eyes, having another latte, and ignoring what is transpiring around me..

I choose to believe the evidence. No doubt some people will scoff at me, others laugh, or think I am foolish, naive, or both. To some degree, perhaps I am. But I have never been afraid to look people in the eye and tell them exactly what I believe-and why I believe it.

I pray I am wrong. I do not think I am. Perhaps the only hope is our vote in the next elections.

David Kaiser
Jamestown , Rhode Island
United States
Pass this along. Perhaps it will help to begin the awakening of America as to where we are headed........


-David Kaiser is a respected historian whose published works have covered a broad range of topics, from European Warfare to American League Baseball. Born in 1947, the son of a diplomat, Kaiser spent his childhood in three capital cities: Washington D.C. , Albany , New York , and Dakar , Senegal . He attended Harvard University , graduating there in 1969 with a B.A. in history. He then spent several years more at Harvard, gaining a PhD in history, which he obtained in 1976. He served in the Army Reserve from 1970 to 1976.

He is a professor in the Strategy and Policy Department of the United States Naval War College. Hehas previously taught at Carnegie Mellon, Williams College and Harvard University . Kaiser's latest book, The Road to Dallas, about the Kennedy assassination, was just published by Harvard University Press.

Growing a Smaller Baby

Six and a half years ago, we became proud parents of our first daughter, after four sons. It took about 3 years to get my head out of the pink, ruffly clouds. I remember the first time I had to wash some of her laundry. It was a pair of hot-pink socks. They looked so UNUSUAL in my laundry which had until then consisted of blues, browns, reds, greens, you know, the BOY colors!
One think about this sweet little girl that was unusual, though, was that she wasn't LITTLE at all! She weighed in at 10 pounds 11 ounces. Oooohh, that was some hard pushing! My grandpa said we ought to have called her "Bubba". Which we still laugh at.
My mind went to work over the next year. I was very determined to never have a baby of that size again!
In my studies, I learned about glucose tolerance testing to determine if a mother has gestational diabetes. It was during that time of learning, that I figured out what had caused my baby to be so big.

I do not believe I had Gestational Diabetes during her pregnancy, because she exhibited non of the clinical symptoms of a diabetic baby. What I'm sure DID happen, was that I ate WAY to many carbs.
When I was in my 6th month of pregnancy, we got our grain grinder. I had so much fun experimenting with the new flours I could produce. Oh, my. We had breads, cakes, cookies, noodles, whatever you can make with flour. I had no idea it was going to cause the baby to be extra big. I was so certain that all this HEALTHY bread was good for her!
It also occurred to me that my 4th son was probably the size he was, due to my enjoyment of mashed potatoes and gravy -nearly- every night for the last month of my pregnancy. (They just tasted so good!)
With my 6th baby, I had decided to curb my carbs for the last 3 months, to see if I could get a smaller baby. It worked! She was 7 pounds 15 ounces! It took some self-denial, and even refusal of my own birthday goodies, but I was so glad she wasn't huge. Baby # 7 weighed in at 8 pounds 1 oz. That time, I allowed a few more carbs, since I was working hard physically in the garden through the last months.

So now, I've got 4 months to go until baby #8 arrives. This time I was heavier to start- because I have to be more in the house. I'm standing at the sink, stove, or washing machine, or sitting at the table teaching my kiddo's their lessons. I have so many capable boys, they dont leave any physical work for me to do outside. I don't like this arrangement, but I don't know how to change it. No wonder I look 'motherly'!
We've gotten into the habit of eating oatmeal just about everymorning. I only sweeten it with raisins with sunflower seeds to make it a complete protein. The children seem to do very well with it, with plenty of carbs for them to run off, and plenty of protein for their growth, etc. Of course there's always milk to wash it down with. I think it's quite a good breakfast for a growing body.

UNLESS, you are the one with a body that is plenty big, and you're worried about birthing too big of another body!
So, I've decided it's time to start really watching my carbs. The family will still get the oats, but I'm going to start the day with eggs, cheese, veggies, maybe some grapefruit.... Not oatmeal, or toast, or fried potatoes, or anything of the sort. Of course, I won't completely avoid carbohydrates, because I don't want to cause ketosis, but the amounts will be drastically reduced. An expecting mom has to be sure to get enough protein, but for this mom, carbs have to be watched closely.
One of my favorite things is cottage cheese with pineapple chunks. Maybe I can get hubby to keep the supply of cottage cheese up, and the rest of the family to STAY AWAY from it! I hope that doesn't sound selfish, but they aren't the ones who have to get a baby out!
So, I'm on my low-carb diet now for the next 4 months. Looking forward to a sweet, normal sized baby!

Wednesday, November 18, 2009